Cancer Life

What I wish I’d told everybody when Riley was diagnosed.

” Friends, Neighbors, Acquaintances & Facebook…

My child has been diagnosed with cancer, Neuroblastoma. We’ll be in the hospital for months during treatment. Which means away from home. I know this might shock and upset you but cry with me not for me.

I love that your thoughts are with us even if I don’t reply to your texts or messages. As of this minute I don’t have the answers to your questions…

Until I set up a page to make updates too you all, I’ll be posting one Facebook status every few days. I’ll be telling information to close family who can then pass on the information to other people as that will be easier for me.

If you want to help, please go ahead and make some quick meals for us to warm up in the microwave as that’s what we’re going to be relying on in the ward. I have to stay with him at all times & although I’m staying on the ward I’m not provided any meals. Oh and a gingerbread latte would be nice too. Try and have a somewhat normal conversation with us. Want to come visit us, please do it. The ward is so friendly.

l will be tired. So mind blown. In shock and scared. I would love if you visited even if I don’t talk much, my mind will be thinking over time about what’s going to happen to him. Maybe you could watch him for 10 minutes so I can get some fresh air or a quick shower?

I will have very limited sleep as the beeping of the IV machines will be going off every 2 hours during the night for more fluids and chemotherapy. I will have limited access to WiFi, food, technology & essentials.

Thank you so much for understanding & sending your love. ”

From a parent who child now has cancer.




7 thoughts on “What I wish I’d told everybody when Riley was diagnosed.

  1. I am a stranger but I want you to know that I am heartbroken with you. Riley has all of my best greatest thoughts and most positive prayers. My best friend who is 39 and her 18 year old son are both survivors of neurtoblastoma. ❤️❤️❤️

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      1. They do not blog. Her son got the same cancer as her in the same exact spot. Doctors were amazed. The same ones that treated my friend as a child, treated her son. It was a very sad time but we all knew her son was in great hands. I’m so glad Riley is in remission. My prayers for his remission to remain will be with you.


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