Cancer Life

2Years in remission!! 🎗

Today is a very special day for my boy…

2 years he’s now been in remission. no evidence of disease… cancer free!!!!

my boy is smashing it everyday!

Could not be any more proud of him.

We still have to battle with the side effects most days but Riley does everything was a smile on his face. Everyday is a day worth celebrating for Riley. He had the hardest battle of his life to face at just 21months the old when he was diagnosed but he’s now 5 years old and doing absolutely amazing! 💕


Cancer Life

How I Wish People Saw Riley’s Bald Head.

One thing that used to upset me the most when Riley was going through his treatment was the way people used to look and stare at him when he was bald.

Tell you, it used to make my blood boil. It’s not even like they used to take a look and look again it was a full on stare. All eyes on him. I could always feel myself boiling inside getting ready for the next person to stare at him for me to let go all my anger.

Of course, people think it’s sad that a child has cancer. It’s not sad, that child is fighting cancer. To them it’s the hardest battle they have to face. The day you walk past a child with no hair is another day that, that child is winning!

I finally decided to shave Riley’s hair off in December because his hair was starting to fall out, just two chemotherapy sessions into his treatment plan. I woke up one morning at the hospital and found little blonde hairs on his pillow. That’s when straight away I hoped the chemotherapy was working.

Thankfully Riley didn’t loose his eyelashes, he has the most beautiful long lashes…

After 7 sessions of chemotherapy and whilst waiting for surgery Riley’s hair started to grow back. It was very very very blonde. Was only like this until it fell out again during high dose chemotherapy. His surgery was in March and his high dose chemotherapy started in April. One month apart.

After 21months of treatment Riley now has light brown hair.

For a 4 year old Riley has never asked questions when we have seen other bald children in clinic or on the ward. When I ask Riley why didn’t he have any hair he just says because he was poorly but he’s all better now.

Riley knows he was poorly and he knows he had cancer but he doesn’t know what kind of cancer or all the treatment he’s had. He will know more about then when he’s old enough to understand…

I wish having hair didn’t mean healthy and been bald didn’t mean sick. I wish bald was a sign of an strong fighter winning a battle. I guess all I can hope is when children ask their parents questions, the parents respond with uplifting comments of hope..

I know people are going to talk and stare but please don’t. Smile! That child has a battle they shouldn’t have to face. Smile and know they are brave! They look beautiful without hair.

I used to always put a hat on Riley whenever we went out but he always took it off. Which I don’t blame him to be honest he was proud of his bald head! He showed it off! I will always be so proud of him.

When Riley was diagnosed with cancer Alice (his auntie) more ales decided straight away that she wanted to have her head shaved and donate her hair to Little Princess trust LittlePrincessTrust

Which she raised over £2000 for for candleligjters the charity that supported us and Riley throughout his treatments Candlelighters

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Cancer Life

What I wish I’d told everybody when Riley was diagnosed.

” Friends, Neighbors, Acquaintances & Facebook…

My child has been diagnosed with cancer, Neuroblastoma. We’ll be in the hospital for months during treatment. Which means away from home. I know this might shock and upset you but cry with me not for me.

I love that your thoughts are with us even if I don’t reply to your texts or messages. As of this minute I don’t have the answers to your questions…

Until I set up a page to make updates too you all, I’ll be posting one Facebook status every few days. I’ll be telling information to close family who can then pass on the information to other people as that will be easier for me.

If you want to help, please go ahead and make some quick meals for us to warm up in the microwave as that’s what we’re going to be relying on in the ward. I have to stay with him at all times & although I’m staying on the ward I’m not provided any meals. Oh and a gingerbread latte would be nice too. Try and have a somewhat normal conversation with us. Want to come visit us, please do it. The ward is so friendly.

l will be tired. So mind blown. In shock and scared. I would love if you visited even if I don’t talk much, my mind will be thinking over time about what’s going to happen to him. Maybe you could watch him for 10 minutes so I can get some fresh air or a quick shower?

I will have very limited sleep as the beeping of the IV machines will be going off every 2 hours during the night for more fluids and chemotherapy. I will have limited access to WiFi, food, technology & essentials.

Thank you so much for understanding & sending your love. ”

From a parent who child now has cancer.





Liebster Award.

I’m feeling really proud of my blog atm.

All the wonderful likes and comments in getting on my latest post

salgallaher nominationed me for a Liebster Award and I’m so pleased as I only started this blog a few weeks ago. Thank you so much Sal, it really does mean alot. So pleased I’ve started off so well and hope it continues like this…

So what exactly is this award? Tbh I had no idea, I had to google it! I think it’s a great idea to promote each other and thank one another for sharing their blogs. So the award is when bloggers nominate other bloggers for showing respect to their works and their dedication. It’s an appreciation and recognition for all the fellow bloggers out there in the blogosphere!

Rules for accepting it?

Write about it on your blog and thank the person who nominated you.

Display the award on your blog.

Nominate 5 – 10 blogs which you feel deserve the award.

Let the nominees know that you nominated them.

Don’t forget to create 10 questions for them to answer. Notify your nominees and provide a link to your post so that they’ll know what to do. Once you’re done, come back here and comment with the link to your post so I can check out your answers.

Below are my 10 questions from Sal and my answers.

1. If you could have a superpower what would it be and why? Invisibility – would love to listen in on peoples conversations and know they’re little secrets.

2. What is your favourite movie? I have always loved anything with Adam Sandler in it but tbh my favourite film is The Hand That Rocks The Cradle. The story is so interesting and when I watched it for the first time I had never seen anything like it before. So it’s always one that has stuck with me. Something different.

3. When and why did you start blogging? I actually created my blog back in 2016 and shared Riley’s cancer treatment on it but deleted it and started this one again at the beginning of the year. I wanted to raise awareness for childhood cancer and the struggles the treatment brings afterwards and so far I think I’ve done a good job. We are rebuilding our lives.

4. Paperbook or Kindle? Paperbook!

5. Do you now live in the country you were born in? Yes I still do. I’ve always wanted to move away from Leeds but I don’t think I ever will. Leeds is where I was born, where I live. The only other place I would probably move too would be Skegness or somewhere really quiet away from people.

6. If money was no object what would you do this weekend? Take riley to legoland and buy all the Lego he wanted! He’s been wanting to go for a few years now so that would definitely be the thing we would do.

7. Who do you respect and look up to? Even though I might not always show it I respect my mum. She’s always tried her best for me and my sister. Even when she’s tired she’s still doing things for other people making sure we have what we need. I also look up to every single person that helped Riley during his cancer treatment they deserve so much respect!

8. Do you listen to music when youwrite, if yes what is your preference? Sometimes I do, but sometimes I just have the telly on for background noise. If I do I love listening too maroon5.

9. What really makes your heart sing? Riley every single day. He makes me so proud. The smile he puts on his face after everything he’s been through it makes me so proud!! He doesn’t let anything defeat him! He brings me so much happiness and joy.

10. What is your main goal for this year? Forget cancer and enjoy our lives. Make more memories. Smile and laugh more!

Now I would like to nominate the following awesome people…

My 10 questions to the Nominees are:

1. What is your life goal?
2. Where do you want to be in 5 years time?
3. Favorite food?
4. Programme you’ve seen every single episode of?
5. What gives you inspiration?
6. 3 things you hate?
7. How do you spend your Sunday’s?
8. What made you create your blog?
9. What brings you the most happiness?
10. What is your main goal for this year?

Once again thank you Sal. Can’t wait to see people’s posts!

Daily Life

Another day, another ear infection.

Riley has been up most of the night in pain with his ears… just over a year now Riley’s been getting perforated ear drums & ear infections especially in his right ear.

hes had a number of hearing tests & gromits have been mentioned s number of times but we’re still inpatiently waiting. every few weeks he’s st the doctors with another problem with his little ears. tbh actually the last time I took him just before Christmas they said it wasn’t a perforated ear drum (his ears was clear) she thought it was just a nasty infection but his ear was leaking wax as the same as a perforated eardrum. Riley was in loads of pain and only thing I could give him was calpol..! i mean… what?

but this is just something that might have been coursed by his cancer treatment I honestly don’t know. I know slot of Neuroblastoma children do suffer from bad ears. so maybe it is but also my dad had slot of trouble with his ears when he was younger like Riley. He still has trouble now. So maybe it might be something generic? I honestly don’t know?

well riley is at the doctors on Tuesday after school so hopefully something will be done to get these nasty ears sorted once and for all. can’t carry on like this! not fair on riley to be in so much pain.

anotber day, another infection. surely this can’t go on?